Particularly as her marriage broke down once the children had left. T hrough pilates she encounters people of all ages sharing the same enthusiasm.
With a little planning, the empty nest can be an immensely invigorating place, she continues. Ros Carman left a job in the City to have her daughter, Verity, and has spent the past 18 years as a housewife in Clapham, south-west London. A few years ago, however, determined to make something of her life once Verity had left home, she retrained as a counsellor at Roehampton University and then completed a postgraduate degree in psychotherapy. I feel I now understand people on a different level. D uring her studies she made an entirely new, more diverse group of friends — unconnected to parenting, whom she is still close to now.
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Being a mother and having had a previous career are the perfect credentials for her new venture, she continues. Verity has supported her new career from the outset. She now works four days a week and has a busier social life than before. She admits, though, that she is still not wholly comfortable with the idea of her daughter leaving home.
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Life is about learning — you just have to keep going. Their stint in Wilmington, Delaware, with their young son Jack, now 24, became the first of a number of moves, during which time Bellamy juggled motherhood — they had two more children, Charlotte, now 22, and Sophie, 19 — and painting.
I t was only when Jack started university in , however, that she began to consider more carefully what she might do with her MA. By the following September, when Charlotte left for university and Sophie for boarding school, she was in the throes of a midlife renaissance. Her cushions won an award at the Northern Design Awards, and Liberty commissioned a collection.
H er work is now sold in Heals, independent shops here and abroad and on her own website. What surprised her most about her second career, was that motherhood and all the years away from the office had changed her very little. And the thrill that comes when your work is featured. This time, though, a couple of decades wiser, she feels more comfortable using her own intuition and less fearful of other people.
Her children are proud of her work and not in the slightest resentful that she is now so busy, although she wishes she could see more of them. She relies on her husband for business advice; the brand has, she says, changed their relationship for the better. We urge you to turn off your ad blocker for The Telegraph website so that you can continue to access our quality content in the future. Visit our adblocking instructions page.
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